Tharon Hardee was my maternal grandfather. The grandchildren
called him Pa Pa. In 1964 he was in his seventies and a member of the church,
but living a life inconsistent with his Christian testimony. I was 15 years old
at the time, and remember sitting in Pa Pa’s family room and listening intently
as my mother, her sisters, and brother expressed to him their concerns about
his eternal soul.
“Daddy,” they told him, “we are worried about you and are
concerned that you are not walking with the Lord as you know you should.”
“Why, Jesus is my all in all,” he responded emphatically, and
acted surprised that they would question his behavior. He was not ready to
admit the truth about where he was, and it seemed that the discussion had no
apparent effect. He continued his life doing the things he knew were
displeasing to the Lord.
A few months later on a Saturday evening while I was at my weekend
job of steaming oysters at a local seafood restaurant I received word that Pa
Pa had had a stroke and was in critical condition, and that I should go
immediately to Loris Hospital where the family was gathering. I entered the
emergency room just as they were pushing him down the hall. As his bed was
rolled past me he looked up at me with distress in his eyes and with heavily
slurred speech said, “Billy, pray for me!” This cry told me that in his heart
he knew the reality of what his children had been trying to tell him. Facing
death, he had to also face the truth.
“Okay, Pa Pa,” I said as they rolled him past me and on to
treatment.
He was in the hospital for about three weeks, but finally
recovered enough to be sent home. He was alive, but the stroke had left him
unable to walk. The family decided I should sleep at my grandparents home at
night in order to help my grandmother care for him. I would lift him up off of
his bed every morning and literally carry him to the little cot that had been
placed in the family room where he would remain all day. In the evenings I
would go back to his house to resume my duties helping my grandmother. How well
I remember going over to that little cot each night, lifting him up and
carrying him in my arms, and placing him in his bed where he would sleep for
the night. This routine went on for about two weeks.
Then one Saturday his nephew Carl came by to pray for him. He read
2 Chronicles 7: 14, and the verses leaped from the pages almost like an audible
word from God to my grandfather. Every word seemed to be a word directly from
God. They described him perfectly, stating the problem and the solution. “If my
people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my
face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will
forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”
Carl read the scripture, said the prayer, and then left. Pa Pa,
sitting alone on that cot with those words echoing in his heart, looked up to
the Lord and took Him at His word. He repented and turned his life over to the
Lord in that very moment.
A few minutes later, my mother received a phone call from my
grandmother saying, “Jessie Lois, Tharon wants you to come here now.” When Mama
and I walked in, we saw Pa Pa sitting on his cot crying. With tears streaming
down his cheeks, he looked up and said, “Lois, the Lord has restored to me the
joy of my salvation,” and then after a pause, he continued, “And I think He has
healed me, too.”
Mama then shouted, “Well, get up, Daddy!”
He immediately arose and began to walk. He was crying and laughing
at the same time, and rejoicing in the overwhelming knowledge of God’s
forgiveness, joy, and healing. I still remember him walking out the back door
and circling the house a couple times with arms lifted, praising and thanking
the Lord for his healing. My mom and I immediately called the rest of the
family to tell them of the miracle.
Pa Pa was a new man after that. I remember being with him when
friends from his past who had not heard of his transformation would come up to
him and make some crude comment or some reference to his past life. He would
get a very serious and stern look on his face. “I don’t do that anymore,” he
would say, and then explain to them that he was walking with the Lord now and
that his life had changed. I watched him love the Lord and walk with the Lord
until the day of his death about two years later. Whenever I would visit him
during those two years he would always ask me to pray for him and with him
before I left. Often at night I would sit with him and read to him from the
Bible. Those are precious memories. I had witnessed his years of hypocrisy, and
then had the joy and privilege of witnessing his wonderful healing and the
transformation which came to him when he faced reality and was honest with
himself before God. We can all learn a lesson from this.
“But...the good ground are those who, having heard the word with
an honest and good heart, keep it and bear fruit with patient endurance.” Luke
8: 15
“Behold, you desire truth in the inward parts…” Psalm 51: 6
Wow god is truly awesome there's no time on his mercy
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